Build The Right Picture

"There is one emotion that causes serious
problems in the lives of many people. Most
people learn this the hard way, or never learn
it at all. That emotion is envy."
             Dr Joseph Murphy

When you see or hear of someone who has
created something wonderful, like lots of
money, or a loving relationship, or an exciting
holiday, how do you respond - inside?

Tell the truth now. Do you rejoice with them
or do you secretly envy them?

Envy is, as Dr Murphy says, a very destructive
emotion. When you have it you find yourself
being bitter and critical of others, instead of
celebrating with them.

And, of course, that pretty much guarantees
that what they have will not show up for you.

What's behind envy? First, it's a belief in
scarcity, that there's not enough to go around.
So the more someone else gets, the less for
you.

Second, there's a belief that the Universe is
unfair, and the other person must have
cheated in some way to get what should have
been yours. You're second class.

Well, we know when we bring these beliefs
into the light of day that they're not true. But
holding them in your mind will make them
true for you, and that's so unnecessary.

One of the most simple positive acts that
you can take for your own benefit is to make
it a point to celebrate other people's
successes. Rejoice with them, whether you
know them or not.

Big successes, little successes, the
Universe treats them all the same and so
should you.

This builds a picture of success in your
mind for the things you want.

Plus, it feels good to cheer others on!

Determine to succeed!

"Some succeed because they are destined to. Others succeed because they are determined to." Author Unknown.

A lot of people thought Walt Disney's dream was ludicrous. Many people laughed at his ideas while others told him it's impossible.

Walt Disney had a dream, a strong determination, and a strong belief. He made it happen. If he had listened to all those who told him his dream was impossible, we would not have the Disney resorts and Cartoons we have today.

There are countless situations where individuals were told it was impossible, yet they went on to achieve success.

I believe it all comes down to your outlook:

• if you think it is impossible, then it is; if you think it can be achieved, then what you see is not the impossible, but the end result.
• if you believe in yourself then you will find a way no, matter what obstacles and challenges you face along the way.
• and, if you are determined then, you will find a 90% chance of success.

See you at the top!

Friend of God

Living Backwards

"Often people attempt to live their
lives backwards; they try to have
more things, or more money, in
order to do more of what they want,
so they will be happier. The way it
actually works is the reverse. You
must first be who you really are,
then do what you need to do, in
order to have what you want."
             Margaret Young


Why is it that we have so many
excuses in our lives? I think a big
part of it is that we don't have
enough self-esteem.

We associate our worth with what
we do and have. If we don't think
that measures up, we find an
excuse that puts the problem on
the outside of us.

You know - circumstances, other
people, the economy, the world,
your spouse, the weather.

I think the root of this dysfunction
is described by our quote - we're
living our lives backwards.

We think we must DO, so we can
HAVE, and if we have enough, then
we can BE.

This doesn't lead to authenticity
in any area of our lives. It leads to
shame and covering up the truth
with excuses.

Tell the truth - are you really in love
with you? Can you see and appreciate
your own infinite greatness? Can you
feel that you are perfectly OK just
the way you are?

Just relax into that thought, that your
OK'ness doesn't depend on any
accomplishments or possessions
or status of any kind.

Wow, feels different, doesn't it?

Why not stay there for awhile and
enjoy it. It's the truth, you know.

Now approach what you DO from
the place of being OK already.

You'll be glad you did.

Many blessings

Keep these thoughts with you Everytime!

1. If God had a refrigerator, your picture would be on it.


2. If He had a wallet, your photo would be in it.


3. Whenever you want to talk, He'll listen.


4. He could live anywhere in the universe, and He chose your heart.


5. What about the Christmas gift He sent you in Bethlehem; not to
Mention that Friday at Calvary.


Face it, He really does love you.


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